Yesterday, i had heard my friend telling a story & it was like this:
"It is obvious that kids always do wrong or have bad attitude in daily life such as simple like scribbling the wall, bullying their younger brother or sister, not respecting the elder and so on if they are not being well-educated. If parents face this problem and they will just attempt to scold them so that not to do this next time or if for the worse case they will just hit 'gently' on their hands, for sure. But, there're another way to cure this problems. That is parents can use a sweet (or something that the kids like one) to provoke them. And the children will try to be obedient so that to get the things they want (their aim is "the things they want" instead of being a good child). So, from that, they can realise that they are smart & everytime they done 'good' things & they will get a reward. So they train themselves to do so."
From this story, something that come into my mind is the parents are just tricking their children instead of actual educating their lovely children. The children might be over-treating. But, there might few percents of success to be a 'good' child or they would learn nothing after all. And, i find that most of the parents (i mean maybe my relatives or other people) are just keep working against the materialism world so that to attain their image life style, feel that they didn't educate their chidren well, or maybe have, perhaps. I quite headache when i meet those kids. They are not the children who really being overwhelmed by the people. When i see them not respecting to the elder one (e.g. splashing saliva over them), i might just roll my eye off (sometimes think to slap them =P). Some might say :"they still kids mah, nvm lah..." but, for me, this is important, it is still the same word - "RESPECT". And sometimes i also wonder that why some of the children don't listen to advise or encouragement by their parents. Maybe I should turn this topic into psychology? you know, last time i have watched a video about hypnotise trick by Derren Brown (a mentalist who play people's mind around). I wonder that & i even wish that i could use this trick on children to educate them well. Perhaps, this is not realistic though. =]
"It is obvious that kids always do wrong or have bad attitude in daily life such as simple like scribbling the wall, bullying their younger brother or sister, not respecting the elder and so on if they are not being well-educated. If parents face this problem and they will just attempt to scold them so that not to do this next time or if for the worse case they will just hit 'gently' on their hands, for sure. But, there're another way to cure this problems. That is parents can use a sweet (or something that the kids like one) to provoke them. And the children will try to be obedient so that to get the things they want (their aim is "the things they want" instead of being a good child). So, from that, they can realise that they are smart & everytime they done 'good' things & they will get a reward. So they train themselves to do so."
From this story, something that come into my mind is the parents are just tricking their children instead of actual educating their lovely children. The children might be over-treating. But, there might few percents of success to be a 'good' child or they would learn nothing after all. And, i find that most of the parents (i mean maybe my relatives or other people) are just keep working against the materialism world so that to attain their image life style, feel that they didn't educate their chidren well, or maybe have, perhaps. I quite headache when i meet those kids. They are not the children who really being overwhelmed by the people. When i see them not respecting to the elder one (e.g. splashing saliva over them), i might just roll my eye off (sometimes think to slap them =P). Some might say :"they still kids mah, nvm lah..." but, for me, this is important, it is still the same word - "RESPECT". And sometimes i also wonder that why some of the children don't listen to advise or encouragement by their parents. Maybe I should turn this topic into psychology? you know, last time i have watched a video about hypnotise trick by Derren Brown (a mentalist who play people's mind around). I wonder that & i even wish that i could use this trick on children to educate them well. Perhaps, this is not realistic though. =]
2 comments:
wa...
so long so long eh blog..
Long meh?
yours 1 longer
bwahahaha
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